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I don’t think your post was inappropriate at all. It is completely anonymous and really not that much detail, just enough to make your point.

Mercuria, your post gives me hope that my kids will view my husband’s place in the house and see that it is healthy, and an option for them to live their lives this way if they choose.

Still happy with each other after 23 years I don`t know if my daughters would choose a Taken in Hand relationship, if they would I wouldn`t have anything against it as long as they are happy. What they are very much aware of is that my husband and I still enjoy each other's company and are still happy with each other after 23 years and I hope they learn from it.

I see no reason why a 15 year old girl shoudn`t choose a boyfriend who takes her in hand. If she feels protected and taken care of, what`s wrong with that? I'd rather have my daughters go out with a guy who will watch and protect them than some geek who doesn`t know what he wants.

Autumn

by Autumn on 2006 Feb 26 - 20:35 | reply to this comment That was a very sweet story S That was a very sweet story Sara. Glad to see another vancouverite in these parts. I have to say the thing that touched me most about your story was that it reminded me so much of my guy and what he may have been like at 15. Oh how many times have i wished i knew him back then, too many to count. I hope one day i will pass on to my daughter the knowlege of what being loved and respected truely is too. Good for you.

It's about standing firm Dutchman,

I fear you are confusing controlling with taking in hand. Of course, a teenage girl should be steered away from a controlling boyfriend but what was related was a story about a girl finding a boy who will stand firm.

Many young girls need to know there are boys who have substance rather than bravado. Why should this be kept secret?

Sara, it appears example is the strongest advice. Congratulations for raising a daughter who values substance over flash.

Depends on the kind of girl she is. My daughters did not have a boyfriend until they had gone away to university. Perhaps English girls have relationships later than in the US, so I never was in your position, but now that they do I am sure their personalities differ from mine. I am very submissive and some women are and some aren't.

Your daughter clearly likes the personality type she has found. If she were a dominant assertive girl who would like to take control of a man then I am sure she would have found a different kind of boy and you knowing she was like that would appreciate the kind of boy that would suit her. I think our children can usually sort that out for themselves without any need for parents to share details of their relationship or even sexual preferences which I regard as very private.

What I would regard as fundamentally and morally wrong would be making children think women whether submissive or not must always be submissive to men, not study, not get jobs, as if that were one rule which applies to the world.