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Dear Bitter Single Guy: I’m the kind of guy everyone comes to for advice, and I love helping people with their problems, and for the most part I’m successful at it. My problem is that I can’t take my own advice and wont even listen to myself sometimes. I’ve gotten myself in to a situation. I met and started a relationship with a wonderful girl a couple years ago but she ended up going to school over 8 hours away and we decided that it would be best to not try and make a long distance relationship work. We went separate ways, had new relationships and blah blah blah. But then we ended up reconnecting for a few weeks this summer and it was absolutely spectacular and we both agreed that we were in love but logistics and distance were going to keep us apart.
Now that school is in full swing I still think about her all the time but found myself starting a relationship with an ex to pretty much fill the void, I feel it’s because I’m insecure and am afraid that she’s doing the same thing and I don’t want to be the one missing out, even though she reassures me constantly that she loves me and isn’t interested in anything else. I need a push one way or the other and I know exactly what I would say to some one coming to me with the same problem, but being the advice guy is pretty lonely, no ones got any help for you. ~Advice Guy Needs Advice~
Dear AGNA: The Bitter Single totally understands that sometimes we have to go outside ourselves to learn what we already knew. That’s why consultants are still around, right?
The good news AGNA (from the BSG’s perspective) is that this isn’t really easy, so you’re not avoiding something obvious. Loving someone who is 8 hours away is frustrating as hell and there is bound to be tons of jealousy and similar drama. The BSG believes your original decision to separate while your Tantalizing Tulip was in school was the right one. Yay for brief, intense, wonderful encounters, but they’re no way to live.
Call Tantalizing Tulip and have the ‘we’re in love, but have to wait until we’re also in the same ZIP code’ conversation. It will be tough, but you’ll both be glad for it. ~BSG~
