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I was so engaged with the answers I almost forgot the questions…what were they, again? Oh, yeah, would I form a emotional bond with someone who used to, or currently is having sex for money with other persons of the opposite sex. Is that a better way of phrasing it? I say form an emotional bond, you say marry…its approximately the same–except the legal rights thing.

No. Do I really have to explain myself? OK, I’ll bite. I would not marry a call-girl, escort, hooker, prostitute. An ex-one of those…possibly. How do define “ex”. Does that mean, no longer commercially available? I think if the chemistry and the connection were there I could see that. For me sex is a huge connector in a relationship. I could get over the jealousy issue with a former hooker if she was honest, centered and very clear of what her new life and continued non-professional life consisted of.

I think that for some, not for me, who are into swinging, the aspect of jealousy apparently can be handled. But I agree with the others who point out the minefield of supposed early life disconnects and molestations that shaped some of these hypothetical women of the night’s personal being is something to be considered. I’m not entirely buying into this, but there seems to be a body of evidence to support that hookers were abused as children. And the same for pedophiles, etc. We “normal” types must be doing just fine, then, shouldn’t we? I have to cut these supposed call-girls some slack and suggest that they are probably not all that different than most of us…except for the pay for sex thing.

Brian alleges some first hand very draining, emotionally and financially, experience in regard to this blog’s core question. I, on the other hand have very little experience with women who have dismally low self-respect or emotional intelligence. But if the question is rephrased as “would you marry a formerly very promiscuous woman” I’m going to suggest some of the same answers would come up. So let’s not pillory the pros just because they’ve seemed to take the easy road (can’t really be easy to be subject to mysterious death, dismemberment, beating, arrest, etc. can it?).

Escorts serve a useful position in society. Perhaps if we could be less judgmental, more accepting and empathetic toward their plight and perhaps de-criminalize this “crime” between consenting adults then the answers might be different. Can I get some professional girls to give a shout out? Could they come to their defense,here. Seems to be comments only from the men’s club. And good, honest comments, brothers!