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I would try (I hope) to explain my distaste for doing that to him in a less harsh way than slapping his face, which I think is somewhat unkind...My husband has feelings that can be hurt, so do most men.
But you seem to be missing the point that if my man lay on his back and invited me to get on top of him, then my feelings would be absolutely *crushed*, because to me it would mean the end of his dominance, and therefore the end of our romantic relationship. I would not slap a man for doing that if it was our first date, and he didn't yet realize that I'm a submissive woman. (But I would walk out the door, because I have no interest in making love to a submissive wuss.) But if it's an established relationship where he knows my own sexual inclinations, but he figures he'll try that out anyway, then I would feel deeply insulted; and I would also lose all respect for him as a dominant man. In that case, I don't really mind hurting his feelings. However, if he decides to get mad instead of getting hurt, and if he can reassert his dominance in a very physical and undeniable way, then there might still be something to salvage from that.
I am not the sort of person to be unkind to others without good reason. But I take masculine domination and feminine surrender very seriously, and if a man I'm intimate with does not take it seriously enough to dominate me thoroughly and with overwhelming force, then he is going to find a little hellcat on his hands.
by DeeMarie on 2006 Sep 12 - 20:05 | reply to this comment
Peacocks and peahens
My 'I wouldn't want to do that' comment was in reference to your remark about a man asking me to lead him around on a leash etc. I wouldn't fancy that. I don't know about irrumation, I don't know if I would feel any differently about that than about just sucking him. I personally prefer the penis when it is placed elsewhere than in my mouth, which I don't regard as the best place for it.
