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I hate to break the (obvious) news to you, but women do all those things even when there are no men around women dress like that.

To me (and many other women) wearing perfume, make-up, and stylish clothes is what a proper modern woman does....it's called "grooming".

God, men really ARE delusional. No wonder some of you think that catcalling and chatting up chicks at the laundromat are "acceptable".

You'll tell yourselves anything to excuse your leg-humping urges, won't you?

April 13, 2010 2:17:00 PM EST
adrian said...
Lady Raine, you are deluding yourself ....

April 13, 2010 2:26:00 PM EST
Anonymous said...
This is the author of the first anonymous comment (but not the 2nd).

Lady Raine, I think you have misunderstood what I was asking. You also quoted me as having used the terms "hide" and "pretending to not want sex", terms that do not appear anywhere in my comment (or the other anon's comment who may have been mistaken for me).

Here is a breakdown of what I'm really asking about, which was aaddressed by Dave.

Fact1 (according to this post): Being desperate for sex is inherently unattractive to women.

Fact2: I am desperate for sex. That is not the only thing that consumes my mind (I am studying to get a Ph.D. among other things), but when I get around an attractive woman desperation takes control of my mind.

My question was asking how to actually BECOME laid back and not desperate for sex. A corollary question was whether using the 'fake it til you make it' strategy would work; i.e. use certain techniques and actions that someone who is not desperate for sex, not necessarily to trick women, but really to start getting positive feedback and to change the underlying subconscious beliefs that cause one to feel desperate in the first place. You addressed the corollary, but did not talk about my main question, which was, how does someone who is desperate for sex actually become patient with women.