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some times than at others. Also there in different measures at different times are expressions of love, joy, sharing, mild sadism (spanking/tickling etc), physiological relief and simple physical pleasure.

All positions are good and the missionary position is certainly one of them and the 'natural' one to take. Although the woman has less work to do, any woman who thinks it's a time to be lazy needs some lessons in the art of lovemaking as there is a lot that can be done to enhance your man's pleasure. The last thing I want to do is have some submissive rag doll doormat always just lie back and just let it happen - a woman can give a man much more pleasure than that.

Douglas.

by Interesdom on 2005 Jul 12 - 10:36 | reply to this comment
Yes, Control Should be Psychological
And not based on the position. It's the psychological factor that counts. A person could be doing the same thing, in the same position, and it could mean 3 different things: male dominance, female dominance, or an equal situation. It's not the act: it is how it is viewed by the parties involved.

Being on top would only give a woman the idea to do things like slap his face, pull his hair or asphyxiate him if those were things she knew he enjoyed.

"Pat"

by a Taken In Hand reader on 2005 Jul 12 - 12:57 | reply to this comment
I semi-agree
I find the missionary position romantic and delightful as long as it doesn´t come to face the reality:-(

My partner is 2x heavier than me and that makes me feel outright scared. I worry about our sex...

He is inexperienced and he would like to do it from behind or me at the top which makes me uncomfortable. (I also have a suspicion that he took most of his ideas from porn.)

Any advice, folks?

by Anna Maria on 2005 Jul 12 - 17:11 | reply to this comment