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This disconnection is something my wife and I have experienced before. It started for us when the children were young and happened during all the time we had to spend with them and chose to spend with them. During those 10 or so years there arose those inevitable interruptions to a couple’s intimacy and the chances to just be by themselves. Family mostly came first, quite correctly, but sometimes incorrectly for us as we found ourselves losing contact with one another, amidst all the demands made on parents and partners.

It is such a huge mistake for parents to put the children first, before their relationship. That may sound like a good idea, because children are indeed important, but so many couples end up destroying and losing their relationship in the name of the children, and that certainly does not help the children in any way. It is so important to put the couple's relationship first, for all concerned, including the children. If the couple's relationship remains strong, passionate and connected, the parents are so much more able to solve any problems that arise, and so much more able to be good parents for their children.

by Sarah Cavendish on 2005 Dec 4 - 14:44 | reply to this comment Perhaps a balance is in order I have always tried to put my children first before material things (i.e. we would have to be pretty darn poor before I sacrificed my influence on them to outside employment) and before other frivolous things. However, I also try to remember that keeping my marriage strong is the best thing I can do for my children. These things can be compromised. It is not a matter of either spending all your time with your children or all your time with your spouse.

As far as losing touch during the holidays, my husband has quite naturally found some ways to prevent this that work for us. He has this way of leaning very close to me and whispering things in my ear. Sometimes they are the sweet nothings they appear to be to everyone else, but sometimes it is something like, "Is that attitude I am starting to hear from that pretty mouth? Do I need to correct that?" or "Is my girl getting lippy with me?" Also, he has that look that tells me that I am getting close to the line. (These things work really well because I also have to think about my reaction and not making it too obvious what is going on. I have to stop without looking reprimanded. The more I have to think about it the more intense it is for me.)